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New Research About Teen “Sexting”

The National Campaign to prevent teen and unplanned pregnancy recently published the results from a survey they commissioned in conjunction with Cosmo Girl. The survey asked teens and young adults about their use of technology to send sexually explicit pictures and messages to one another. The survey included the responses of 1,280 teens and young adults ranging in age from 13-26.

In the findings, they reported that “A significant number of teens have electronically sent, or posted online, nude or semi-nude pictures or video of themselves.” They go on to report that “75% of teens and 71% of young adults say sending sexually suggestive content “can have serious negative consequences.”

Given these startling statistics, it is increasingly important that parents discuss “sexting” openly with their kids. 

  1. Talk openly – Although this is a difficult topic, it is important that your kids are aware that when sending pictures or sexually explicit messages the images are not truly private.
  2. Know their friends – Just as with all other friends, it is important that parents know who their kids are connecting with and communicating with online.
  3. Think long term, even when your kids can’t – Parents often have the ability to think of the long term repercussions of their actions.
  4. Stay up on technology – In order to be able to know what your kids are posting and sending out, you must be able to understand all of their technology.  Whether its Facebook, chatting, or “texting” make sure you are as savvy as your child.
  5. Communicate your expectations – by setting some expectations for what is appropriate online your kids will understand what is allowed.
If your child is misusing technology or posting explicit pictures of themselves or others, and this is disrupting their lives, we may be able to help. Whether you or your family are looking for therapists or treatment programs, Prepare To Bloom, LLC is just a phone call away. Please contact us at (650) 888-4575 or visit us on the web at www.PrepareToBloom.com.
 
 

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A Parent’s Guide to Understanding Cutting

Cutting is a form of self injury where small cuts are made typically on the body arms and/or legs.  Cutting is a way for teens to release emotional pain.  The practice of cutting has been happening in secret for ages, but more recently has come to light as it has been shown in movies, TV shows and online.  Teens and tweens, who are often unaware of other ways to release intense emotions, turn to the internet for answers and come across information on cutting.  They are also learning from peers.  The majority of my clients report knowing someone who cuts.

The topic of cutting was recently discussed on the Today Show and it was highlighted that teens who are feeling immense “pressure to be perfect” are turning to cutting as an answer.  The segment reported that “a Seventeen magazine poll shows that 15% of teens physically hurt themselves on purpose.”  They are highlighting that this is a common problem and parents need to understand the signs and symptoms of these self destructive behaviors.

What to look for:

  • Changes in attitude, friends, interest in activities and day to day behaviors.  Teens who are not handling the day to day stress of their lives are vulnerable to releasing their emotions through cutting.
  • Need to always be covered up.  If you see that your child is wearing long sleeves, long pants and this does not match with the season, this may be reason to be concerned.
  • Unexplainable cuts or scratches.  Often teens will use whatever they can get their hands on to cut so cuts may be superficial.  Question your child on how they got the scratches or cuts and trust your intuition.
  • Negative self talk.  If your teen is constantly talking about themselves in a negative way with you or others.
There are treatment options for self harming ,and parents need to address self injury head on in a compassionate manner.  Parents need to try and calm their fears, and listen to what your teen is telling you.  Remember that teens can’t always express their feelings and their actions often need to be looked at as communication that things are not going well.  Whether you’re looking for a therapist or a treatment program or would like more information about therapeutic and educational consulting, Prepare To Bloom, LLC can help. Please give us a call at 650-888-4575 or visit PrepareToBloom.com for more information.
 

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Do You Know the Girl Effect?

We are watching as the government is struggling to figure out our country’s budget. This video gives us something to think about for girls worldwide. If you are interested in what you can do please take a look at halftheskymovement.org.

 
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Posted by on April 6, 2011 in Articles, Girls

 

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